Saturday, April 2, 2011

Puppy Love

We all have those people that we fall for. We think they are "the one". You see young couples everyday. They are trying to discover love when they haven't even discovered themselves. God is prepearing the perfect person for you to be with. It is not likely that they will be ready during highschool.
We all want to love and be loved. Girls want to be pursued and find their prince. Guys want to catch a girls eye and find their princess. But did you ever think that maybe God isn't done using you as a single person? We can do some much when we are single. We aren't tied down to one person. We aren't concetrated on just them. We can reach out to others and make amazing friends without having to worry when we are going to fit our boyfriend/girlfriend in. We can discover who we are and build our relationship with God. By building a better relationship with God we find who we are in Him instead of relying on other people to tell us who we should be. Instead of having somebody want to change you don't you want them to love you for who you are? For them to have to fall in love with God to fall in love with you. Why go through the pain of relationships that in the end never work out? Why not save all your heart for the perfect one? The one person you are meant to be with. If you are in a relationship that is Godly and is meant to be then that is great. I am not saying don't date or be in a relationship. I am saying do what God is telling you to do, not what the world wants you to do. If you cannot see yourself marrying that person though why date them? We are so young and we have so much of life left to find someone to be with. So really think about a relationship before you go into it. You may think it helps you get experience for the real thing. But if it is the real thing why would you need experience? God will give you exactly what you need when you need it.
Puppy love can be fun, but if it hurts you in the end, is it really worth it?
God Bless,
Rachael


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